Did that get your attention? I bet it did.
Here’s a fact: I love a selfie.
Here’s another fact: I love a naked selfie, better.⠀⠀
And why on earth wouldn’t I?!
Naked selfies are HOT (whatever you look like) and there’s a group of women in my life who send each other naked selfies all the time.
In fact (another fact) – I have a few of these groups. There’s quite a few of us ladies in my Whatsapp contact list who swap and share naked pictures on a day to day basis.
“Why, oh why, do you do that, Samantha?”⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I hear you ask. Naturally.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Well, it’s because those women in my life view things a little differently. We love our bodies. All of us. We love that we feel liberated when in the presence of one another, whilst naked; that we can be our most authentic, sexual personas – and no one will judge.
We love the fact that we feel good about our bodies, and we applaud that. And why shouldn’t we? So when we feel good about our bodies, we take pictures of them. And we share those pictures with each other. Because, we adore each other. We support each other. And we think of each other as SEXY AF.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
And when someone else thinks you’re SEXY AF – guess what?
YOU think you’re SEXY AF. And you walk taller for the rest of the day, knowing that you really are just the sexiest thing on the planet, in an empowering moment that belongs entirely to you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
That – and the (additional) fact we’re all just total horny perverts.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But even on the days when we don’t feel so good about our bodies – we still share them. Not every day, but on the days when we need to hear “you’re a sexy Muvva-F*er ” the most.
We share our hearts, and we talk about how we’re feeling. ⠀
My body is not perfect.
Your body is not perfect.
There is no such thing as the perfect body.
But being able to stand in the mirror, or lay in your bed, and think “Hey, you know what…? I bet my girls would find this sexy” can make a world difference to how you feel at the end of each day. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
So, this weekend I’ll likely send some nude snaps to the SEXY AF women who I trust the most. The women who love me. The women who support me. The women who would tell me I look like a ‘million dollars’ wrapped up in a £5 note. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But if that’s not your thing? Hey, that’s ok too!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Maybe stand in the mirror anyway, and take a mental snap – JUST FOR YOU. 💋⠀⠀⠀
Samantha Kelsie | ZFG
Lifestyle Empowerment Coach
⚡ Permission to be – unapologetically YOU ⚡